My husband is very good person, but he puts in businesses that to him usually leave badly. This puts to us time and time again in difficult situations, but it works this way: he says that he could not work on another’s account. No longer I know what to do, until I consider to separate to me because this makes me undergo much. Raquel – Murcia – Dear Spain Raquel: Before making as important decision as the one from separarte, test to comunicarte with your husband of the clearest and calm form than is possible and listens to their answer with the same attention and interest that you ask. Your challenge consists of exactly expressing what you feel and you think without offending it, to despise it, nor to attack it. We suggested to you you tell to open heart what you feel whenever he risks in a business that is not nothing safe.

Not him reproaches which makes bad, nor you make him feel culprit of the economic failure of the family. Simply, pdele that it listens what happens to you, cuntale that you feel uncertain or unprotected. Surely, neither you know what to the other it happens to him, thinks or it feels. Often it is thus. Proponle to make together the labor decisions, but you do not hope that it changes immediately. You also can mudar of attitude for acercarte and comunicarte with him, and that goes to llevaros a time that, by all means, is worth the pain.