Self-Criticism

Can you remember when you were the last time that somebody indicated a lack to him? Doubt that does not fit it at some time passes that us to all of the life. Although it is certain that much of the critic that is received comes around from ill-disposed people to ours, also we must admit that in ocaciones the critic comes from people who worry about our well-being. A husband could sear to him to his wife whom to the food it needs salt, a wife could comment her husband to him who that necktie does not combine with the suit that chose, a friend could express to us that we are neglecting and losing the line, etc. hard also Could be that the critic comes in the form of discipline, in order to improve generally in some aspect of our performance; " it tries to arrive at some future date &quot more early; , " you are oyendo that music too much fuerte" , etc. Now the question is, how reacted the last time that faced a critic? It accepted it with taste, or one got angry and until it said to him to the person who stopped putting in which to not it matters him? If you are of the people who get upset she is not to surprise so that infinity of people react just as you but, so healthy what is to react thus? We can learn to accept the critic without it hurts so much to us, and to see it in its measured joust? Analizemos together five ways to make it more acceptable. It controls his worse critic. This it is the first and more important point in which to work. Are too demanding you with itself? Perfectionist? He is always thinking about his points " dbiles"? If we are plagued people of self-criticism always he will affect in great way the one to us that another our lack remove to us.