We understand that adults – not angels, and can deceive each other not only on trifles and a joke, but in very serious situations. But why is it that children lie? When it comes to most 'liar' moment? Let's try to understand. As it turned out, many already are lying in early childhood. However, most children are doing is absolutely unconscious. Their lies – their childhood fantasies. Inventing unrealistic stories, they tend to believe them so that they cease to distinguish the line between reality and the fictional world. Talking about their fantasies, they say, quite frankly, but you should know that the child is cheating on you is not intentional.
He did not even think about the fact that their lies cause harm or gain any benefit. Growing up, children must understand that to lie – not good. Here are a few reasons why, knowing this, some children still continue to do this:-to to avoid punishment;-to conceal his guilt, to look older, to achieve commendable, the significance of the outside world,-to show their hostility to anything. Sometimes parents themselves, unaware of this may encourage your child to lie. There are cases when parents vent their anger on children, can even beat an innocent baby. And then starts the method of the boomerang.
The more a parent show anger on the kid, so more he will lie to him to avoid his wrath. That is, the indignation of the child lies, on the contrary, we make him lie. So, your child is lying, what to do next? First of all, to find the cause of deception; should not rashly attack baby. It should be remembered, your baby – not a criminal. He's just a helpless, inexperienced child, yet who can withstand the rigors of the world. Create such a relationship in the family that the child did not feel the need to lie. share with them their own feelings, find time for various games, encourage a sense of humor in them, the ability to fantasize. After all the lies and fantasies – a different concept. Children need to explain that the parents can not always restrain their own words because of the circumstances. Despite this, with your friends and associates to build warm and trusting relationships without resorting to deceit, hypocrisy and lies. And if your baby, and as an adult, will tell the truth.