Healthy Childhood Development

We understand that adults – not angels, and can deceive each other not only on trifles and a joke, but in very serious situations. But why is it that children lie? When it comes to most 'liar' moment? Let's try to understand. As it turned out, many already are lying in early childhood. However, most children are doing is absolutely unconscious. Their lies – their childhood fantasies. Inventing unrealistic stories, they tend to believe them so that they cease to distinguish the line between reality and the fictional world. Talking about their fantasies, they say, quite frankly, but you should know that the child is cheating on you is not intentional.

He did not even think about the fact that their lies cause harm or gain any benefit. Growing up, children must understand that to lie – not good. Here are a few reasons why, knowing this, some children still continue to do this:-to to avoid punishment;-to conceal his guilt, to look older, to achieve commendable, the significance of the outside world,-to show their hostility to anything. Sometimes parents themselves, unaware of this may encourage your child to lie. There are cases when parents vent their anger on children, can even beat an innocent baby. And then starts the method of the boomerang.

The more a parent show anger on the kid, so more he will lie to him to avoid his wrath. That is, the indignation of the child lies, on the contrary, we make him lie. So, your child is lying, what to do next? First of all, to find the cause of deception; should not rashly attack baby. It should be remembered, your baby – not a criminal. He's just a helpless, inexperienced child, yet who can withstand the rigors of the world. Create such a relationship in the family that the child did not feel the need to lie. share with them their own feelings, find time for various games, encourage a sense of humor in them, the ability to fantasize. After all the lies and fantasies – a different concept. Children need to explain that the parents can not always restrain their own words because of the circumstances. Despite this, with your friends and associates to build warm and trusting relationships without resorting to deceit, hypocrisy and lies. And if your baby, and as an adult, will tell the truth.

Educational Fun for Kids

This may be puppets, various designers, toys subject-role-playing games, creativity kits, mosaics, counting stuff, etc. At this age a child can begin to prepare for school and do this through games and developmental toys to get interesting and useful! For children primary school-age approach is more complicated for the content of toys, designers, puzzles, etc. Toys need not be much, as long as they were diverse in meaning, purpose, materials. It must be remembered that the toys – this is a wonderful occasion and hanging out with the baby. Need in the game lies in the child of nature. This is a natural state for him. He so knows the world, express themselves, their thoughts, feelings, needs. Through games children communicate with each other.

Games are very important for the formation and development of the child. The problem of adults – arrange for the child play, give the opportunity to express themselves fully, to help him to understand the world in all its diversity, to make his first discovery. If you want to be friends with your child – playing with him. Because children matter to our attention and our love! How to play with fun toys? It is important interest of the child a toy at first "acquaintance". It often happens that the toy is really like parents, but for some reason the kid did not impress. Can have multiple reasons: – Firstly, baby, this toy is not suitable for age, in this case it is better to remove at any time and offer the kid later – and second, parents often give a toy and the kid just does not know how to play with her and there must be participation of adults in the game – in Third, Such a situation may arise if the choice of toys are not considered particularly the child's preferences.

To toy with time the child is not tired of it should be removed to a special and prominent place, but better that the child himself could not get it. Play, of course, it is necessary only when the child himself wants it. In no case do not compel a child. If a child plays the game is not on the instructions, and invents his own version – It is very good, right child shows an unusual approach. In the game encourage independence of the child, do not suggest to him ready-made solution or scenario games. Remember that the child can not be long concentrate on one activity, no need of it to claim it.